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Showing posts with label children. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 14, 2015

Guest Post- Safe Babysitter Checklist


If you haven’t already, chances are you’re going to need a qualified babysitter who can step in and watch your kids at some point this summer. I’ve found that working with a babysitter is great for my kids and me. I get a much-needed break, and it’s enriching for them to work with someone with a new perspective, a different kind of creativity, and new ideas.
Of course, you’ll want to properly vet anyone that will be caring for your kids. They need to be knowledgeable about safety while also being kind and nurturing. As you begin your search, here’s a quick checklist of the most important factors to consider.

Are they CPR-certified? When you’re searching for the right babysitter for your family, the first thing to look for is someone who is CPR certified. In its article on what to look for in a babysitter, Care.com indicates that having CPR and first aid training is a good indicator that the candidate is “safety-conscious.” I recommend making this a mandatory requirement for anyone who sits for your kids. It is a vital skill, especially if your sitter will be taking your kids swimming this summer.

Are they pool-ready? Whether you have a backyard pool or your sitter will be taking the kids to a neighbor’s pool or the community pool, it is crucial that you make sure they know how to keep your kids safe around the water. To educate your babysitter more specifically on pool safety, a great place to start is this article on pool party safety. It provides excellent pool-specific advice that any parent will want a sitter to have. For example, it explains what steps one needs to take as the “acting” lifeguard and what safety equipment to check and have on hand.  

Have they been recommended by a friend or neighbor? We rely on recommendations from friends (and sometimes even strangers!) on the places we eat and events we attend so why not do the same with a potential babysitter? WAHM.com describes qualities to look for in a babysitter. It recommends treating the process of finding a sitter like a business might treat hiring a new employee. In the same way that a company asks for an employee’s references, ask for references from your babysitting candidate.

How responsible are they? Hudson Valley Parent recommends finding out how responsible your babysitter is. There are a couple of ways to do this. One option is to have your babysitter come over to watch your kids while you’re still home. Have them play and watch the kids while you take care of other things around the house. Check in every now and then to see how things are going. As the article notes, if you’re constantly seeing the sitter checking their phone they aren’t giving your kids their full attention and aren’t the right person for the job. Another option is to do a test run. Have the sitter watch your kids, but ask them to check in with you at certain times. If they remember to do so, then that could indicate that they’re responsible enough for the job.

Are they willing to follow your rules? Before you leave your child in a sitter’s care, you’ll want to be sure they are aware of essential safety rules and always follow them. KidsHealth.org provides an overview of rules to consider. If you find out that your babysitter is neglecting to follow these rules, it’s time to find someone else.

Finding the right babysitter for your family may take time. But the hard work will be worth it. You’ll have the peace of mind of knowing that your kids are well taken care of and safe when you can’t be there to look after them.

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Lindsay M writes for PublicHealthCorps. She also has many other passions - like cooking, biking and photography. She is happily married to her high school sweetheart and is the mother of twin girls.

Monday, December 1, 2014

31 Days



31. Yup. That's all we have. 31 days left to 2014. If you're anything like me perhaps you are wondering where the time went, or how we are past summer, and Thanksgiving already.

In any event, we have 31 days to work on the goals we came into 2014 with, or some we may have picked up along the way. Whether you have been successful at keeping a New Year's resolution or not, you still have before you 31 days to make something really great happen.

What can you do in the next 31 days that will put 2015 on notice that you are coming for it?

You could:


  • Start walking
  • Learn to cook new recipes
  • Learn new computer software
  • Register the name of your new business
  • Work on writing a business plan
  • Spend more time with your children
  • Begin to meditate and/or pray 
  • Learn yoga
  • Journal
  • Learn to crochet
  • Clean out closets and storage areas
  • Look for a new job
  • Look for a new place to live
  • Volunteer
  • Begin writing your book
  • Take a trip
  • Do daily affirmations
There are so many things you can do in the next 31 days to help you leave 2014 on a good note.

So what will you do?



Monday, November 3, 2014

Change

"The only thing that is constant is change." Heraclitus



In life things change. Seasons change, we age, we marry or divorce, have children, children grow up, we start a new job, or leave a job. Every day we are presented with some form of change.

Some people fight against change, opting instead to stay in their comfort zones. I myself have been guilty of this. I've stayed in situations because I was used to them, even if they made me unhappy.

I've often remained in comfort zones so long, despite all of the evidence that I should leave, that the universe had no choice but to force me out of the situation.

The main changes I have avoided, turned out to be good for me. Even when I was forced out of a situation, I looked back and was grateful for the push.

Recently I have experienced a lot of change. This change has caused me to demand that I make decisions and move forward in my life, rather than stay stuck in stagnation.

Have you avoided making decisions or moves in your life because you feared change?

Today I came across "11 Calming Reminders That Change is a Good Thing" in the Huffington Post. It reminded me that change is imminent, and should be embraced.

What changes have you been avoiding or dreading? How can you look at that change differently?